Between the undersigned:
This contract aims to define the foundations and terms of a freely consensual hierarchical relationship between the two parties, namely the Dominant, referred to in this document as "Mistress Nicky", and the submissive, referred to as "Servus".
The following is hereby agreed:
This contract is neither a commercial agreement, nor a legally binding document under civil or criminal law. It is a moral, emotional, ritualistic, and symbolic commitment, formalized with respect for the informed and mutual consent of both parties.
Through this contract, Servus acknowledges and agrees to enter into a structured relationship dynamic centered around the gentle and benevolent authority of Mistress Nicky, following a “vanilla” form of submission—that is, one that respects the emotional, physical, and psychological boundaries of each person, without resorting to extreme or coercive practices.
This relationship and contract are based on:
Both parties commit to honoring this agreement with attentiveness, kindness, and consistency, while reserving the right to suspend, adapt, or terminate this commitment according to the terms set forth in later articles.
This is not a commercial contract nor a legally binding agreement under civil or criminal law. It is a moral, ritualistic, emotional, and ethical commitment that expresses the deliberate choice to establish a hierarchy based on authority.
Symbolic Renunciation by the sub:“Servus” renounces, for the entire duration of the contract, the following:
Throughout the term of this commitment, “Servus” freely and knowingly expresses the will to submit to the choices, orientations, and decisions of “Mistress Nicky”, within a relationship based on trust, respect, and shared structure.
This symbolic renunciation implies:
This clause does not revoke Servus’s right to speak, to safety, to psychological comfort, or to use the safeword. He remains an active participant in their well-being within the established boundaries, and the bond formed relies on emotional cooperation and mutual benevolence.
The duty of «Servus» is neither blind obedience nor the mere execution of orders. It is an inner journey — a total, conscious, and consensual commitment to serving the Will of the other.
«Servus» accepts the rules not out of weakness, but by choice. He understands that discipline strengthens, and that imposed limits can become springboards toward a higher form of freedom: the freedom of honoring one's given word.
1) Obedience: The Pillar of Duty
The obedience of «Servus» shall not be seen as a weakness, but rather as a noble form of commitment, structuring the authority-based relationship with «Mistress Nicky». This is not obedience to disappear, but to exist more fully within a chosen, accepted, and sanctified role.
Example: Every morning, Servus waits for the first word from Mistress Nicky before speaking or undertaking any personal action.
2) Docility: The Art of Willing Submission
Docility shall represent a fundamental aspect of the attitude of «Servus». It will not be weakness, nor a softness of mind; rather, it shall be a form of relational intelligence — a state of openness, trust, and deep availability to the authority embodied by «Mistress Nicky».
Example: Each time Mistress Nicky raises two fingers, Servus commits to immediately fall silent and cross their hands in front of him, eyes lowered. This symbolic gesture, learned with tenderness, expresses their choice to listen, to become available, and to show respect.
3) Bondage: Restraint, Surrender, and the Beauty of Control
Bondage, or the art of tying the body, fits into dynamics of submission as a highly symbolic act. "Servus" voluntarily agrees to be restrained, to completely surrender to the other, and to relinquish control over their own body.
Example: Servus is gently tied with a satin ribbon at the wrists or ankles, for a moment of relaxation or reading. The goal is not constraint, but trust: to allow oneself to be tied like a gift, in gentleness and slowness. A caress, a tender word seals this moment of intimate surrender.
4) The Collar: A Symbol of Belonging, Commitment, and Ceremony
The collar holds a unique place: it is both a ritual object, a symbol of commitment, and a mark of possession and mutual responsibility. Far beyond a simple accessory, it represents a silent vow, a visible bond of the hierarchical dynamic between "Mistress Nicky" and his submissive "Servus".
Example: Each morning, Mistress Nicky fastens the collar around Servus’s neck with a gentle word or a caress. This gesture is akin to a marital kiss: intimate, simple, yet full of meaning. If the collar cannot be worn in public, a substitute piece of jewelry or agreed dress code is used. It is a daily and gentle reminder of commitment.
5) Fetishism: Objects of Worship and Transfers of Power
Fetishism shall not be reduced to an erotic preference: it becomes a vehicle of adoration, symbolic intensity, and the channeling of desire. The object, garment, or body part fetishized by "Mistress Nicky" acquires a near-sacred value and becomes a totem of submission around which rituals, prohibitions, and permissions are constructed.
Example: Servus receives a personal item from Mistress Nicky (panty, glove, piece of jewelry) to keep discreetly in a drawer, pocket, or under the pillow. He may kiss, smell, or touch it at any moment during the day. The object becomes a private, emotional link. It may be “reclaimed” in case of failure or disobedience.
6) Daily Control: Submission Embodied in Every Gesture
Beyond erotic or ritual moments, submission will be most fully expressed when “Mistress Nicky” regulates the ordinary aspects of “Servus”’s life: clothing, schedule, food, sleep, leisure. This supervision aims to transform routine into a terrain of discipline, obedience, and self-giving.
Example: Every day, Servus sends a message to Mistress Nicky (or he provides a vocal or written report): body status, mood, intention for the day, gratitude. This small daily act creates a constant link of light submission, without overwhelming constraint.
7) Service – Devoted Expression of Daily Submission
The service provided by “Servus” to “Mistress Nicky” will be a fundamental expression of Servus’s devotion, respect, and commitment. More than a mere utilitarian act, service becomes a ritual of submission, a voluntary offering, a daily way to honor the established hierarchy. The service may be domestic, bodily, or symbolic, depending on the needs expressed by “Mistress Nicky”.
Example: Before going to bed, Servus closes the shutters, prepares the bed, and turns on the bedside lamp before offering a few sweet words of submission. The gesture is simple, yet daily, anchoring devotion into routine.
When my feet are given to you, you shall fervently kiss them.
This contract enters into force for a period of 24 heures.
Upon the expiration of this contract, unless there is mutual agreement to renew it, each party will freely return to their original role, released from any bond of authority or obedience, with respect and gratitude for the shared journey.
This contract may be terminated early, at the sole initiative of “Mistress Nicky”, provided they express the underlying reasons for the termination out loud, in front of the other party, within a neutral and respectful space. By relinquishing the right to freely or unilaterally terminate the contract, “Servus” affirms that submission must not be dictated by whims, mood swings, or fear.
Of course, this principle does not permit abuse. The contract remains governed by fundamental ethical boundaries, particularly consent, safety, and mental well-being. In cases of serious endangerment, unnegotiated suffering, or major breach of trust, exceptional interruption clauses are provided. Outside of such extreme circumstances, “Mistress Nicky” alone holds the right to suspend or terminate the contract. “Servus” shall honor the chosen path—of structured and consensual self-abandonment—through silence, patience, and perseverance.
To preserve the dignity, physical and psychological health, and emotional integrity of the parties, a safeguard clause is included, allowing for the temporary suspension of the contract under exceptional and justified circumstances.
Safeword: Tsunami (Immediate stop for 30 minutes)
During the safeguard period, all ritual, protocol, and disciplinary obligations are suspended.
If the safeguard period reveals a profound imbalance, a renegotiation of the contract may be requested. Until the new terms are accepted and formally acknowledged by both parties, this contract shall not be considered modified in any way.
Contract effective date: at 08h00 PM
Date and signature:
The Dominant "Mistress Nicky"
Date and signature:
The submissive "Servus"